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| Saturday, December 19th, 2009 |
ededdeddee
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4:10p |
Posting order
Was out when my friend called. Hey where are you posted to?? he said. I was like, it's out already? So he helped me check online and told me that i was posted to OCS. Was in a state of disbelief at that moment. Stop pulling my leg was my reply. But he didn't sound like he was lying. Was actually wondering if i would make it there especially during the last few weeks of BMT. i mean my performance according to my own judgment could have been better. or was it just me? Well i'm actually in a state of mixed emotions. Happy that i got into the officer course, but at the same time, im sad that i got to book in come monday and leave this civilian life that i have been enjoying for this 1 1/2 wks. But i'm not complaining. Because maybe NS is the small price i have to pay to be fortunate to be born in Singapore. i would rather trade 2 yrs of my time serving this nation rather then be born in the middle east or some lesser country. this 2 yrs. i'll make the best out of it :) Current Mood:  pleased |
| Friday, December 18th, 2009 |
ededdeddee
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8:20p |
This is merely a obstacle we must overcome
I have never had a nerve-wrecking wait in my life until today. It has been the longest wait in my life and i'm going crazy. I need to know that you're ok. That everything is ok. I need to know what's happening. Its the fear that is haunting me. But no matter what happens, know this. My stand is clear. And it won't waiver Its going to be 2010 soon. A New Year with New Beginnings And hopefully a new start to our lives. Current Mood:  anxious |
hardguy83
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3:58p |
public apology
this is a public apology to G, that i have hurt ur feelings by blogging abt our rship and making u go thru this. I promise i wont write such things again and will protect you. pls come home with me...  friends, i believe we have lots to learn in life, and to forgive is one of them. thank you for ur care and concern, and at the end of the day, i still love my G a lot and i have the strength to carry on. maybe we will have to go thru many obstacles, and maybe i was angry previously, but the times spent with G was so far the happiest and i hope that we will perserve. i want to look back next time and say, im glad we took the more difficult path. :) are you with me? |
hardguy83
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2:02a |
sick :(
i tink emotional and physical fatigue has taken a toll on me. these few days coughing a bit. today keep having runny nose and cough like mad. not to mention the ultra high stress level this morning. coz i didnt check my ipod b4 i left home. batt was empthy, i tink i forgot to switch it off or something. only 5 mins before my class i realised i cudnt use my ipod. faster rush to THAT CD SHOP @ great world city buy PCD album, thinking got JAI HO. rush back to studio then realised fuck this is not the CD i wanted. so in the end i needed to choreo on the spot. so i kinda shared the process with them. did Bottle pop. damn stress. then afternoon went Sim Lim with yongzhong to buy comp. spent $1k on the cpu. yz says its damn gd specs, so ok la, at least settled one thing. then rush home, bring costume out, went for rehearsal then show. keep having runny nose. i tink i caught a cold yest? coz yest had 2 shows back to back. after first show we quickly rush off to the car and blast aircon. :( hai... now i got to get well before sat idol reh. :( god bless me.... |
| Thursday, December 17th, 2009 |
hardguy83
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3:05a |
HELP!!
anybody knows of friends/acquaintances who 1) haf an okay body 2) dont mind doing a full monty (ie striptease till nothing) for a house party on NYE? 10 mins dance for $350. pls comment or sms me. tks..urgent... AND IM NOT GNG TO ENTERTAIN TALK COCK COMMENTS COZ THIS IS WORK AND IM SERIOUS ABT IT. thanks all. |
| Wednesday, December 16th, 2009 |
mightymouse21
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1:52a |
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hardguy83
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1:25a |
masochistic me.
i actually didnt want to work for the last 2 weeks of dec, coz i wanted to take a break. but when zaki called to ask if i wanna do sg idol finals, i cudnt resist the temptation!! gosh..i AM MASOCHISTIC!! 5 items...dat is soooo gonna be sexciting..i jus hope i dont screw up. its been 3-4yrs since the 2nd proj superstar, dat was when i first did 5 items with zaki. i almost died.. i cant wait to do the show seriously. :) |
mightymouse21
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12:26a |
自创曲
Top 50 competition and we already see more than 3 自创曲 and judges loved them! I love all 3 of them below, but which one do you like the most? 李匯晴:愛過 范安婷：想写首歌 陳以恩 吳蓓雅:阿嬤的白頭髮 starts from 1:08 I think I prefer the 2nd one more.. |
| Tuesday, December 15th, 2009 |
hardguy83
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5:43p |
taken from b_u_t_t_e_r_fly 's entry.
1. Go to bed at the same time. Remember the beginning of your relationship, when you couldn't wait to go to bed with each other? Happy couples resist the temptation to go to bed at different times. They go to bed at the same time, even if one partner wakes up later to do things while their partner sleeps. 2. Cultivate common interests. After the passion settles down, it's common to realize that you have few interests in common. But don't minimize the importance of activities you can do together that you both enjoy. If common interests are not present, happy couples develop them. At the same time, be sure to cultivate interests of your own; this will make you more interesting to your mate and prevent you from appearing too dependent. 3. Walk hand in hand or side by side. Rather than one partner lagging or dragging behind the other, happy couples walk comfortably hand in hand or side by side. They know it's more important to be with their partner than to see the sights along the way. 4. Make trust and forgiveness your default mode. If and when they have a disagreement or argument, and if they can't resolve it, happy couples default to trusting and forgiving rather than distrusting and begrudging. 5. Focus more on what your partner does right than what he or she does wrong. If you look for things your partner does wrong, you can always find something. If you look for what he or she does right, you can always find something too. It all depends on what you want to look for. Happy couples accentuate the positive. 6. Hug each other as soon as you see each other after work. Our skin has a memory of "good touch" (loved), "bad touch" (abused) and "no touch" (neglected). Couples who say hello with a hug keep their skin bathed in the "good touch," which can inoculate your spirit against anonymity in the world. 7. Say "I love you" and "Have a good day" every morning. This is a great way to buy some patience and tolerance as each partner sets out each day to battle traffic jams, long lines and other annoyances. 8. Say "Good night" every night, regardless of how you feel. This tells your partner that, regardless of how upset you are with him or her, you still want to be in the relationship. It says that what you and your partner have is bigger than any single upsetting incident. 9. Do a "weather" check during the day. Call your partner at home or at work to see how his or her day is going. This is a great way to adjust expectations so that you’re more in sync when you connect after work. For instance, if your partner is having an awful day, it might be unreasonable to expect him or her to be enthusiastic about something good that happened to you. 10. Be proud to be seen with your partner. Happy couples are pleased to be seen together and are often in some kind of affectionate contact – hand on hand or hand on shoulder or knee or back of neck. They are not showing off but rather just saying that they belong with each other. ---------------------------------------- ---------------------------------------- ----------- G and I have points: #1: usu we will go to bed together even if either of us stil not tired, unless one of us is very very awake. #2: i didnt like to cook. i only like to eat. but bcoz of G, i even went to learn how to make tiramisu. i dun tink G is a dancing person? but he enjoyed the mass dance @ Zirca quite a lot. #3: usu we walk tog, if we cud i will hold his hand... #6: i always give G good touch, so much dat friends tink we r very rou ma... #7: if G wakes up for work and i dont need to wake up so early, he will usually plant me a kiss before leaving the room. #8: we always wish each other gd nite b4 we sleep if im staying over. #9: i always sms him to see if hes ok at work. #10: like duhhh Things that i NEED TO IMPROVE ON: #4: i am able to forgive usually, but tend to trust less after each incident, i tink i have to work on that. not easy though...i wud tink both parties should help each other on this? #5: i tink i really have to work on this. im quite anal and usu only notice the bad things of a person. but i do sometimes give praises if i realise theres improvement? hmmm..food for thought. |
mightymouse21
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3:29p |
邊品憲:藍色貝殼
This song is becoming more and more addictive.. ugh.. His voice seems to be more suited to the song than the original... Please listen! If you wanna skip the intro, go to 1:45 |
ededdeddee
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1:48a |
POP-ed
Wow. this space is really dead. Well i think it will continue to be for the next yr or so but I'm still going to rant anyways POP finally. out of that wretched island. OK army isn't that bad but hey! i would rather be a civilian any day. Christmas is here once again. My Favourite season of the yr. but this yr, everything seems so different. everything seems so rushed! Is it due to my new life? now that im on block leave and will have to book in soon? The days i spend out as one of you guys are going by so fast. the time really flies and before i know it i got to book in back into camp. Haven't even got any Christmas gift for anyone. sigh. Time. When we don't need it we seem to have it aplenty But when we need it, we almost always seem to be short of it I don't want this year to end. I'm not ready for 2010 There are so many things i want to say and do by the end of this yr. I will really miss this yr. It came and gone all to quick. I have yet to set up twitter, the 2009 application. i have to get my smart phone. ( which i will soon) I'm typing this close to 2am. my eyes are already droopy. Tomorrow i'll be flying off to thailand. Short getaway. I need to get out of this mad rush. Thailand.- Hatyai ( i hope i find my peace there) I'll miss u babe. you know i will. Here's to wishing you all a Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year. Don't forget about me because i have not forgotten about you :) Current Mood:  contemplative |
| Monday, December 14th, 2009 |
hardguy83
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4:40a |
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hardguy83
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3:27a |
weekend
and so i had a pretty relaxing weekend, spending a lot of time at home, sleeping, playing td. sat, slept most of the day, went to new house. had show @ night, then came home play game til 5am. sun, slept till abt noon time, again shift some stuff to new house, then went for rehearsals, then dinner with parents, then went shopping @ courts before coming home again to play td lol. i realised i dont spend much usually, but when i do, its like WOAHHH. new 26" TV = 600+ new CPU = 800-1000+ reno fees (help parents to cover a bit) = 3000 there goes 1 mth salary. wat abt lasik???? :( no money siah... anywei, is anybody good at computer free one of the weekdays to accompany me to simlim to buy a new CPU? i wan those smaller kind, so dat it will take up less space. but im not sure of which specs are good. dun wanna get cheated, so if ure a computer pro and dont mind gng down with me pls let me know! lunch/dinner on me k :) and tmrs a monday already! |
| Sunday, December 13th, 2009 |
hardguy83
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4:36a |
does anybody know where i can get a "rack" for my chains? like so dat i can hang them up in a glass cabinet kinda thing so dat i can choose by jus looking at them and not need to disentangle before choosing coz they r all in a lump now :( |
mightymouse21
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2:32a |
Speedy Scandal
Eh... since we didn't manage to view this at my place, let preview some nice and funny clip here.. Anyone has the below song(Name: Perhaps that) in MP3?? I wan.... |
mightymouse21
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12:12a |
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| Saturday, December 12th, 2009 |
mightymouse21
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1:09p |
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| Friday, December 11th, 2009 |
hardguy83
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3:48a |
hmmmmm..it occured to me dat maybe when im angry, i make rash decisions. i mean, im oso at fault here. shudnt have made decisions without talking it out first... 5 days to think abt it. i hope both of us will be ready by then. i will miss him very much when hes away.. hai... |
| Thursday, December 10th, 2009 |
hardguy83
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3:13a |
沉入越来越深的海底
我开始想念你我好孤寂
跌进越来越冷的爱里
我快不能呼吸我想要你
人活着赖着一口氧气氧气是你
如果你爱我你会来找我
你会知道我快不能活
如果你爱我你会来救我
空气很稀薄因为寂寞
跌进越来越冷的爱里
我快不能呼吸我想要你
人活着赖着一口氧气氧气是你
如果你爱我你会来找我
你会知道我快不能活
如果你爱我你会来救我
空气很稀薄因为寂寞
如果你爱我你会来找我
你会知道我快不能活
如果你爱我你会来救我
空气很稀薄因为寂寞 |
| Wednesday, December 9th, 2009 |
hardguy83
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3:06a |
Hot And Cold
ARGHHHHHH i hate it. but thru out this "ordeal" lol, i made a friend. i mean, hes just an acquaintance before today, but today we chatted a lot coz i was home practically the whole day. thanks nick! huggssss :) and so, while i cudnt find any reason to patch things up, uncle marc told me, dat what was the reason that made u fall in love with him? is the reason still valid? u shud love someone for who they are and not hope that they will become what u want them to be. then i was dumfounded for a while. my mind tried to process but somehow i cant. wat do u guys think? i wud very much like to give him a FINAL CHANCE...but..i KNOW the outcome will be the same... but according to uncle marc, dat is who he is, i shud not try to change him. also, uncle marc said, he wans u to love him, and even if u break up, he will still continue being like that...in which i replied..but im not a babysitter!!! HMMMMMMM but will i be able to take it? will i be able to love him the way i do now, but yet close one eye when i know hes up to no good? will i be able to remain calm if i know he tell me going out to do someting with friends but is actually going to meet him? will i be able to accept my bf ruffling my hair in bed, or cuddling me, when 5 mind ago, hes telling another person "how nice it wud be if ure my date"?? i tink the ans is all no. then how?? hai... :(:(:( |
| Tuesday, December 8th, 2009 |
hardguy83
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4:13p |
BKK here i come!!
and so, ive booked my tix for songkran! gonna be my first songkran, with the rest of the boys. tink its gonna be fun fun fun, plus i get to meet xiangwei after so long!! :):):) |
hardguy83
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5:18a |
AN UPDATE FINALLY : bad romance. lol
i think this is the FINAL STRAW. i want out. im not exactly the most charming guy or most handsome or best bod in the scene, (S/N: tink my bod was much better when i was single lol), so bad that my bf had a friend derrick, who doesnt like me, asked him, ewww how come ure with him?..and just 2 weeks ago, this other friend saw me n G at play and he smsed Greg "I wouldnt do him if i were you." OUCH. guess what was my bf's reply? it was " ya Derrick said the same thing" DOUBLE OUCH. lol. so funny im not even really laughing. on the other hand, my bf, G, is totally hot and gorgeous. almost all my friends see him will tell me, WAH SO CUTE. U VERY LUCKY. *ahem* anywei a couple of days ago, G told me he got to know this NEW GUY. from PLK dragonboat team. tink they xchanged numbers on the train when he was on his way back home from watching movie from uncle marc on tuesday. WOW. (dat time still duno gay or not gay) then past few days, my bf keep smsing, WHEN WE WERE SPENDING TIME TOGETHER. i was like...hmmm, OKAY. but i didnt wanna go to my old ways of checking hp. i asked him who was it and why he keep smsing, he told me "oh, discussing abt stan chart marathon coz running together" so..i gave him benefit of the doubt. SUNDAY morning was stan chart. im not a running person, so i went down to meet him at RC after the run, to pass him slippers to wear, and haf MACS bfast with him. i mean, im not working and this is the least i cud do to show my support. after bfast/lunch, we went back to his place to watch a home movie and slept a bit before i went for my rehearsals. as we were watching movie, he was already busy smsing..like once in every 5 min!?!? i was like okay....EVEN WHEN SLEEPING..he ALSO keep smsing and put the hp beside his pillow, WHICH HE NEVER DOES. so i cudnt take it, ok sue me, but i did it again, i went to check his hp. and i was rite...everytime i check his hp, i wud pray that i wudnt catch anything. actually i tink its been 2 mth or so i never read his hp coz i tot things have gotten on track, since we were already officially a couple. anywei, back to the incident with the DB rower from PLK. (and YOU, dont bother telling me to not write abt who he is on my blog.) so from sunday 12pm till tuesday 12am. which is like 36 hrs, i counted that G sent out 86 smses!! lets exclude sleeping time, so maybe dats 24 hrs? 4 sms per hr? wow, how interesting. and the smses were along the lines of " my date doesnt run and i take running very seriously, how i wish you were my date"...and many others...oh. another one is massage and apply moisturizer on the face and groin for each other after the marathon. hahaa. and while he was typing all these smses, we were, most of the time, at his place, watching a movie together while holding hands on the bed, a few kisses here n there. and i tink that is the most scary part. seriously. and G, its only sms FOR NOW coz only 2 days has passed. IM VERY SURE u will sms him jus before he leaves for his KL trip with words like take care of urself cutie, etc etc, SOUNDS FAMILIAR??? now i tink abt it, i have really given him all my extra time, and even cancelling my classes to spend my time with him. but it really hurts to know that while u are making an effort to do so, he is busy smsing another person the whole day. kinda sucks rite? and G can tell me, oh i knew u wud read my smses so i didnt delete them, what i said to him(that PLK rower) was not true and wat i said to u was true(G did tell me that he got to know this new guy, but hes only 21 and he reminds G of himself when he was young and wants to have fun and that G is totally not interested in him) HA HA HA. aiya, i haf so much to rant on, but i tink dats all for tonite, this is just an update since ive been too busy to update..BECAUSE IM SELDOM HOME as G's mum is away, I TRY MY BEST TO STAY OVER AS MUCH AS I CAN TO KEEP HIM COMPANY...but what do i get in return? a song to end the nite. :) i totally like the words @ 00:15. :) |
into_the_wild
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12:52a |
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| Monday, December 7th, 2009 |
mightymouse21
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1:11a |
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| Saturday, December 5th, 2009 |
pyrosx
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11:27p |
Baba Bling Sounds...
Tiring day... but it was great singing for the crowd at the Peranakan Museum. I hope they enjoyed the music, I know I did... and my feet hurts like hell now LOL.
If you haven't seen the Baba Bling exhibition, do pop by the Peranakan Museum for their open house! The bling is gorgeous :)
But apart from that, come watch my choir, Vox Camerata as we perform a few songs for the occasion.
Some songs may be familiar to most, such as Bunga Sayang... but given a different spin with a choral arrangement.
Another is a gem from the 50s, from the Nat Ling Cole of this region... P Ramlee.
Come watch us if u're free! We perform at 3.30pm, 4.30pm and 5.30pm. Current Mood: Happy |
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